Are You Married Righteously to Your Husband or Wife?

The only standard of marriage that will be blessed according to the Bible

Danwil Reyes
5 min readSep 19, 2023
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Let me start this by asking: Are you married righteously to your husband or wife? If you are a man or a woman, have you asked yourself that question?

In my blog today, I’ll tackle head-on and share with you the only standard of marriage that will be blessed by “God” (Elohim), according to the Bible.

If you have been following me and my blog posts, you’ll notice that I do not deal with mumbo jumbo because I am a straight, down-to-earth guy, and I say things that some of you don’t want to hear, but I will say them anyway because they’re real truths.

Yes, I’m a true Christian that won’t compromise biblical truths, and I have a responsibility to the Father Almighty “God” (Yahweh) that I take very, very seriously to spread real love, hope, faith, and truth to this rebellious society and fading world.

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Anyway, getting back to my topic, marriage is a sacred union between a man and a woman, established by the Creator Elohim in the Garden of Eden. According to the Bible, a righteous marriage is one where both the husband and wife fulfill their heavenly-given roles with love and respect for each other.

The role of a man in marriage is mentioned in Ephesians 5:25–33, where husbands are commanded to love their wives as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her. This means that a man’s role in marriage is to be the head of the household, leading his wife and family with love, integrity, and sacrifice. He should provide for his family, protect them, and cherish his wife as his own body.

The role of a woman in marriage is described in the same passage, where wives are commanded to submit to their husbands as to the Lord. This submission does not mean blind obedience or inferiority, but rather a humble and respectful attitude towards her husband as the leader of the household. A wife’s role is to be her husband’s helpmate, supporting him and encouraging him in his roles as a provider, protector, and leader of their home. She should also manage the household, nurture their children, and create a warm and loving home environment.

A righteous marriage is not a one-way street, but rather a partnership between a husband and wife. Both partners must work together to build a strong foundation for their marriage. They must communicate openly and honestly, forgive each other when mistakes are made, and love each other unconditionally.

Marriage is not always easy, and there will be challenges and struggles along the way. However, with Elohim at the center of their relationship and both partners fulfilling their roles with love and respect, a righteous marriage can overcome any obstacle.

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It should be emphasized that a righteous marriage is exclusively between one man and one woman, as ordained by Elohim in the Bible. Homosexual unions and same-sex marriage are not in line with Yahweh’s design for marriage and are therefore not considered righteous marriages. In fact, the Bible clearly teaches that homosexuality is a sin (Romans 1:26–27), and any sexual activity outside of marriage between one man and one woman is also sinful (1 Corinthians 6:9–11).

Therefore, it is essential to remember that a righteous marriage is between a man and a woman, as this is the only way to fully follow Elohim’s plan for marriage. Any form of man to man or woman to woman relationship that covertly or intentionally attempts to redefine Yahweh’s design for marriage will not be blessed by Him, as it goes against His will and purpose for human relationships.

So yes, in marriage, the man should lead his family with sacrificial love, while the woman should support her husband as his helpmate. Together, they create a partnership that allows them to overcome any challenge and build a strong, loving relationship that honors the Elohim in heaven.

Overall, a righteous marriage is a sacred union between one man and one woman, fulfilling their heavenly-given roles with love and respect towards each other. Any deviation from this design goes against Elohim’s plan for marriage and is considered a sin. It is very important to understand and remember that a righteous marriage is exclusively between a man and a woman, and any attempt to redefine this will not be blessed by Yahweh.

After reading this blog post, can you honestly answer my question: Are you married righteously to your husband or wife? Also, what do you think of this topic? Leave a comment and let the community know your thoughts.

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Danwil Reyes
Danwil Reyes

Written by Danwil Reyes

Silver and gold have I none, but I'll give you what I have: the power of true love and real truth from things above! May you have heavenly peace and blessings.

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