What Attracts Men to Women Besides Physical Beauty?

My perspectives on women’s traits beyond physicality that men find attractive

Danwil Reyes
5 min readSep 12, 2023
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What attracts men to women besides physical beauty? As a woman, have you ever asked yourself that question? Today, I’ll share my thoughts on the enigmatic factors that truly hold sway over men’s hearts, highlighting the intricacies of attraction and allure that extend beyond the superficiality of physical beauty. If you’re a woman and curious about it, this one is for you.

It is a widely propagated notion that men are primarily attracted to physical beauty. However, the truth is far more intricate and fascinating. While a woman’s physical appearance may initially catch a man’s eye, there are numerous other qualities that hold the power to captivate and enthrall them. These qualities go beyond physical beauty, forging profound connections that stand the test of time.

The thing people should know about me is that I am a straight, down-to-earth guy, and I don’t play or believe in mumbo jumbo; I always mean what I say, and I say what I mean. That being said, in my humble opinion, the major or top-quality traits of women that captivate and mesmerize men are the following:

Compassion

A compassionate woman possesses the power to touch hearts and ignite empathy within men. The ability to understand and support others, showing genuine care towards the world, is irresistibly appealing. Men are drawn to women who radiate kindness, as it reflects their own desire for a compassionate and nurturing environment. Compassion is a trait that fosters a deep emotional bond, making men feel understood, appreciated, and loved. Compassion the warmth that melts men’s hearts.

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Sense of humor

Laughter is indeed the shortest route to a person’s heart. A woman with a well-developed sense of humor has the invaluable ability to bring joy and happiness into a man’s life. Sharing lighthearted moments, inside jokes, and being able to laugh together creates an emotional intimacy that is profoundly attractive. A good sense of humor acts as a lighthouse, guiding men towards a fulfilling and happier relationship. Sense of humor is the gateway to happiness.

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Shared Interests and Hobbies

Shared interests and hobbies can also be attractive to men. When a woman shares similar interests and hobbies with a man, it creates a sense of connection and compatibility. It allows for shared experiences and the opportunity to bond over common interests. Sharing activities and passions can contribute to the overall enjoyment and fulfillment within a relationship.

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Kindness

Kindness is a highly valued trait that can attract men to women. Men appreciate women who are compassionate, caring, and empathetic. Kindness is seen as a positive quality that contributes to a healthy and fulfilling relationship. Acts of kindness create a nurturing and supportive environment that fosters emotional intimacy.

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Understanding

The ability to understand and share the feelings of one another is a characteristic that sparks emotional intimacy. When a woman displays empathy, she showcases her capacity to truly comprehend her partner’s emotions, allowing for better communication and support during both joyous and challenging times. This emotional connection is what ultimately deepens the attraction and makes a woman irreplaceable in a man’s life.

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Of course, certain physical traits such as a healthy physique (not necessarily curvy or sexy), good hygiene, and grooming can attract men to women. These physical attributes signal overall well-being and self-care, which can be appealing to men.

It is important to note that my preferences here may vary from those of other men, as attraction is a complex and subjective matter, but I’m confident that many single and married men would agree with my choices.

Also, let me be clear: I’m not against physical beauty. I’d be glad to see both physical beauty and the traits I mentioned above in a woman, but sadly, it’s a rarity, perhaps only wishful thinking, like looking for a pin in a haystack.

Overall, I must say that while physical appearance is not the sole determining factor in attraction, it still plays a role in initial attraction. While physical attractiveness often appears as the first criterion to grab attention and pique interest, there exist various factors that go beyond the realms of physical beauty, which have the power to captivate and intrigue the male mind. Understanding these underlying qualities is crucial to debunk the myth that men solely prioritize outward appearance in women.

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Danwil Reyes
Danwil Reyes

Written by Danwil Reyes

Silver and gold have I none, but I'll give you what I have: the power of true love and real truth from things above! May you have heavenly peace and blessings.

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